国产av不卡一区二区_欧美xxxx做受欧美_成年人看的毛片_亚洲第一天堂在线观看_亚洲午夜精品久久久中文影院av_8x8ⅹ国产精品一区二区二区_久久精品国产sm调教网站演员_亚洲av综合色区无码一二三区_成人免费激情视频_国产九九九视频

您現在的位置: Language Tips> Columnist> Zhang Xin  
   
 





 
Rub the wrong way?
He is able to get along with some people but always seems to rub the wrong way with others – what does "rub" mean?
[ 2008-05-09 10:49 ]


Rub the wrong way?

Reader question:

In this sentence – He is able to get along with some people but always seems to rub the wrong way with others – what does "rub" mean?

My comments:

"Rub the wrong way" is the phrasal verb to be examined here, "rub" referring to the act of stroking the hair of an animal, pet or beast.

The sentence means the person in question gets along with some people but not with others. The way he keeps rubbing the wrong way with them suggests that he has, say, a different personality or a peculiar way of doing things that others find irksome, irritating, annoying.

Now definitions. "Rub the wrong way" obviously comes from the practice of petting an animal, a cat, a dog, a lion etc. Pets love being cuddled and being stroked. When you stroke them along the way their furs are naturally lined up, you make them purr with comfort and pleasure. However, if you stroke them the other way around, going against the natural lie of their furs, you make them bristle, bite, scratch and snarl whichever the case may be – you're rubbing it the wrong way and making them uncomfortable.

It's the same way with all manners of animals, birds, beasts and humans alike. Take donkeys for instance. In China, we have a saying in "順毛驢子", which refers to people who enjoy being rubbed the right way. If rubbed the wrong way, they might, well, lift a (metaphorical) hoof on you.

Yes, it is the same with humans. We all love to be cuddled and stroked, figuratively speaking, but not rubbed the wrong way. Let's take bosses, for example. All bosses love fawning subordinates, which is fine and natural. However, some sorry sycophants lack the tact to do it right. They either say wrong things or say the right things at the wrong moments or in front of the wrong people. Result: The poor boss bristles. In Chinese of course we have an apt saying describing this particular situation in "馬屁拍到蹄子上". To put it in English word for word: Trying to pat the horse on the backside, you hit him on the hooves instead – so bear with it if the boss, er, kicks back at you.

Anyways, "rub the wrong way", "rub up the wrong way", "rub someone the wrong way" or "rub the wrong way with someone" all mean the same thing: you irritate, annoy and offend them by tactlessly handling a situation, especially a good situation.

Here are a few examples:

1. Rubbed the Wrong Way

She thought a massage would be soothing. Instead she ended up in pain. Here's one woman's account of what can go wrong in a massage – and what to know before you get one.

I'd just finished a book manuscript and wanted to reward myself. I envisioned something luxurious—something to soothe mind and body.

I came upon a brochure featuring a $155 spa sampler at a Georgetown salon and made an appointment. My visit was to include a 30-minute facial, a 30-minute massage, and a manicure and pedicure. I was especially looking forward to the massage and imagined leaving with a loosey-goosey glow that would linger for days.

I did, in fact, experience a lingering feeling for days. The feeling was pain.

- Washingtonian.com, March 1, 2008.

2. But big cats, particularly those as self-absorbed as (Nick) Faldo, rarely lose their claws and the slight of 1999 is unlikely to have been forgotten. The outcome of this year's Ryder Cup may depend as much on the European captain's performance as that of the home team's. How many of his own players will he rub up the wrong way by September?

- Faldo's Wild Side in Need of Taming, The Sunday Herald, January 13, 2008.

3. One final word of advice to the person who wants to take Buddhism all the way. Once you have found a suitable tradition, group, and teacher, stay with them. Things will not always go well, and not everything will please you or be as you think it should be. That is inevitable for two reasons. First, because each of us brings to Buddhist training our own set of attachments and delusions, they are bound to 'rub the wrong way' against parts of a genuine practice. Second, even the best teacher and group are human and they will make mistakes from time to time. The fact that they sometimes 'mess things up' does not mean that they are unworthy of being your teacher and fellow students: it simply means that their personal training is ongoing. Since enlightenment is not a finished thing but rather an ongoing process, and since even the continuous enlightenment of the arahant does not confer omniscience or infallibility, mistakes are going to be made. If seekers after Buddha's Way require that their teachers or religious groups meet the ideals floating around inside their own heads, they will never find what they are looking for.

- How to Find a Temple, Practice Group, or Teacher, www.eugenebuddhistpriory.org.

我要看更多專欄文章

 

About the author:
 

Zhang Xin is Trainer at chinadaily.com.cn. He has been with China Daily since 1988, when he graduated from Beijing Foreign Studies University. Write him at: zhangxin@chinadaily.com.cn, or raise a question for potential use in a future column.

 
英語點津版權說明:凡注明來源為“英語點津:XXX(署名)”的原創作品,除與中國日報網簽署英語點津內容授權協議的網站外,其他任何網站或單位未經允許不得非法盜鏈、轉載和使用,違者必究。如需使用,請與010-84883631聯系;凡本網注明“來源:XXX(非英語點津)”的作品,均轉載自其它媒體,目的在于傳播更多信息,其他媒體如需轉載,請與稿件來源方聯系,如產生任何問題與本網無關;本網所發布的歌曲、電影片段,版權歸原作者所有,僅供學習與研究,如果侵權,請提供版權證明,以便盡快刪除。
相關文章 Related Story
 
 
 
本頻道最新推薦
 
Walking in the US first lady's shoes
“準確無誤”如何表達
英國新晉超女蘇珊大媽改頭換面
豬流感 swine flu
你有lottery mentality嗎
翻吧推薦
 
論壇熱貼
 
別亂扔垃圾。怎么譯這個亂字呀?
橘子,橙子用英文怎么區分?
看Gossip Girl學英語
端午節怎么翻譯?
母親,您在天堂還好嗎?

 

国产精品乱码一区二区三区软件| 91美女片黄在线| 丁香六月综合| 性欧美ⅴideo另类hd| 99免在线观看免费视频高清| 日本不卡免费播放| 午夜影院免费播放| 黄网址在线播放免费| 2017天天干夜夜操| va亚洲va日韩不卡在线观看| 理论电影国产精品| 日韩国产精品久久久久久亚洲| 怡红院精品视频在线观看极品| 中国精品18videos性欧美| 99久久影视| 88国产精品视频一区二区三区| 99视频精品视频高清免费| 日本一二区不卡| 日韩电影免费网址| 天天操夜夜操国产精品| 99热在线成人| 国产精品99一区二区| 亚洲一级影院| 亚洲裸体俱乐部裸体舞表演av| 亚洲欧洲另类| 亚洲免费婷婷| 中文字幕资源网在线观看免费 | 中文字幕精品三区| 欧美新色视频| 一个人看的视频www在线观看免费| 国产一卡2卡3卡四卡网站| 国产一级又黄| 日本黄色入口| 在线免费观看av电影| 天天性天天草| 成人高清免费| 欧美激情图区| 精品推荐蜜桃传媒| 午夜视频成人| 青草在线视频| 蜜臀久久精品| 国产精品麻豆成人av电影艾秋| 91国产精品| 国产精品高潮呻吟久久久久| 偷拍亚洲精品| 999国产精品999久久久久久| 欧美三级午夜理伦三级中文幕| 99国产精品| 日本伊人色综合网| 国产成人免费视频一区| www.在线欧美| 国产精品沙发午睡系列990531| 亚洲美女偷拍久久| 好吊成人免视频| 91精品中文字幕一区二区三区| 日韩午夜av一区| 国产亚洲精品美女久久久久| 欧美成人精品h版在线观看| 国语自产精品视频在线看一大j8 | 成人免费看黄网址| 超碰在线公开超碰在线| 国产在线观看网站| 一区二区三区精密机械公司| 国产精品嫩草99av在线| 日本伊人精品一区二区三区观看方式| 国产一区二三区| 91丝袜呻吟高潮美腿白嫩在线观看| h视频在线播放| 乱小说综合网站| 超碰在线94| 日本成a人片在线观看| 高清精品在线| 精品国产亚洲一区二区三区在线| 日韩黄色网络| 欧美精品大片| 久久精品国产免费| 99re8在线精品视频免费播放| 亚洲欧洲日产国产综合网| 欧美日韩中文字幕在线视频| 日韩欧美在线123| 综合网中文字幕| 亚洲图区综合网| 免费福利在线| 天堂在线一二区| а_天堂中文在线| 久久亚洲精品爱爱| 亚洲综合小说图片| 99精品欧美| 成人丝袜高跟foot| 一区二区三区四区激情| 欧美精品三级日韩久久| 伊人一区二区三区久久精品| 亚洲天堂在线视频观看| china中国猛gary| 黄色大片在线免费观看| 中文字幕在线直播| 天天躁日日躁狠狠躁欧美| 国内精品久久久久久久影视麻豆 | 91亚洲国产| silk一区二区三区精品视频| 手机在线电影一区| 久久天堂成人| 国产亚洲成av人在线观看导航| 偷拍日韩校园综合在线| 亚洲成年人在线播放| 欧美国产欧美亚洲国产日韩mv天天看完整| 玖玖精品国产| 日本一二区视频| 日本天码aⅴ片在线电影网站| 国内不卡的一区二区三区中文字幕| 日韩欧美视频在线播放| 韩国v欧美v日本v亚洲| 美女扒开尿口让男人操| 亚州福利视频| 黄色网址免费在线观看| 国产精品成人3p一区二区三区| 97精品国产| 国产精品18久久久久久久久久久久 | 男女下面一进一出无遮挡| h版电影在线播放视频网址| 成年人在线观看视频| 国产精品诱惑| 综合视频在线| 不卡视频一二三| 欧美午夜丰满在线18影院| 亚洲男人第一网站| 麻豆精品不卡国产免费看| 中文字幕在线一二| 性感美女一区二区在线观看| 91久久高清国语自产拍| 成人免费观看视频| 色婷婷av一区二区三区大白胸| 在线不卡国产精品| 岛国91视频| 97最新国自产拍视频在线完整在线看| 成人影院网站ww555久久精品| 亚洲高清自拍| 国产日韩成人精品| 欧美一级片在线| 欧美亚洲在线观看| 性一爱一乱一交一视频| 亚洲黄色免费av| 久久国产电影| av在线不卡电影| 欧美日韩在线免费视频| 欧美精品一区二区免费| 麻豆美女网站| 黄色aa久久| 9999国产精品| 久久婷婷一区二区三区| 91精品久久久久久蜜臀| 2020久久国产精品| 在线色视频网| 亚洲国产一区二区久久| 国产精品呻吟| 一区二区三区在线看| 亚洲色图13p| 激情综合亚洲精品| 亚洲欧美在线观看| 亚洲精品中文字幕av| 91麻豆产精品久久久久久夏晴子 | 91网在线播放| 美女av一区| 国产精品资源在线观看| 在线一区二区三区做爰视频网站| 久久久久国产精品免费网站| 黄色免费观看网站| 九七影院97影院理论片久久| 日韩视频一区| 一区二区三区鲁丝不卡| 中文字幕免费精品一区| 国产一级片在线| 搞黄网站免费观看| 91精品国产网站| xxxxx国产| 在线国产成人影院| 亚洲国产激情| 亚洲精品免费看| 综合av色偷偷网| 91传媒在线观看| 欧美xxxx做受欧美护士| 亚洲人成久久| 一区二区三区精品| 久久精品视频网站| 欧美午夜片在线看| 亚洲成人黄色在线| www.91av.cn| 久久一卡二卡| 欧美区一区二| 伊人婷婷欧美激情| xxx一区二区| 最新av番号| 影音先锋欧美激情| 国产二区国产一区在线观看| 91精品国产入口| 国产精品偷乱一区二区三区| 欧美性爽视频| 亚洲视屏一区| 亚洲国产一区二区在线播放| 九九热这里只有精品6| 在线观看国产高清视频| 韩国女主播一区二区三区| 大陆成人av片| 亚洲福利小视频| 九九热在线免费视频| 色尼玛亚洲综合影院| 日本系列欧美系列| 欧美日高清视频| 国产丝袜护土调教在线视频| 爱福利在线视频| 先锋影音久久久| 91九色02白丝porn| 欧美色欧美亚洲另类| 暖暖在线中文免费日本| 日韩香蕉视频| 色先锋资源久久综合| 亚洲欧美精选| 福利在线导航136| 国产日韩欧美一区二区三区视频| 国产在线色视频| 日韩欧美午夜| 一区二区视频免费在线观看| 欧美国产高跟鞋裸体秀xxxhd| 国产日本在线观看| 天天做天天爱综合| 亚洲动漫第一页| 中文字幕999| 国产啊啊啊视频在线观看| 国产一级久久| 欧美精品在线观看一区二区| 日本三级电影在线看| 日韩成人综合网站| 成人一区二区三区视频在线观看| 日韩精品在线视频观看| 男人的天堂在线播放| 欧美人妖视频| 国产欧美一区二区精品久导航| 久久久国产精彩视频美女艺术照福利 | 日韩精品在线视频| 免费在线看污| 第四色成人网| 亚洲综合视频在线观看| 日本男人天堂网| 高清精品在线| 麻豆精品视频在线观看视频| 欧美xxxxx牲另类人与| av777777| 女人av一区| 亚洲伊人色欲综合网| 亚洲精品一区中文字幕电影| 一本大道色婷婷在线| 精品在线免费观看| 国产视频自拍一区| 亚亚洲欧洲精品| 91精品精品| 在线观看亚洲专区| 久久这里只精品最新地址| 7878成人国产在线观看| 成人女性文胸| 亚洲电影男人天堂| 一区二区三区免费观看| 麻豆视频国产| 欧美网站免费| 久久一区二区三区国产精品| 欧美黑人狂野猛交老妇| 性欧美猛交videos| 寂寞少妇一区二区三区| 亚洲一级片在线看| 欧美日韩美女视频| www.欧美免费| 在线观看麻豆| 国产精品普通话对白| 日韩免费一区二区| 美女网站在线观看| 亚洲深深色噜噜狠狠爱网站| 在线精品视频免费观看| 天天做天天爱天天爽| 怕怕欧美视频免费大全| 午夜婷婷国产麻豆精品| 一个人看的视频www在线观看免费| 麻豆精品国产| 亚洲日本护士毛茸茸| 欧美xxxx性猛交bbbb| 亚洲色图图片| 国产精品久久久久久久久搜平片| 在线亚洲色图| 国产一区精品福利| 国产欧美综合在线观看第十页| 97人人模人人爽人人喊中文字 | 欧美激情一区二区三区四区| 欧美亚洲国产日本| 91tv亚洲精品香蕉国产一区| 久久久夜色精品亚洲| 亚洲欧洲激情在线乱码蜜桃| 第四色男人最爱上成人网| 久久综合成人精品亚洲另类欧美 | 国产第一页在线视频| 国产伦精一区二区三区| 久久夜色精品国产亚洲aⅴ| 亚洲色图美国十次| 国产成人精品三级| 久久久久久久91| 欧美在线va视频| 欧美国产日韩a欧美在线观看| 五月精品在线| 中文字幕一区日韩精品| 亚洲午夜在线视频| www.狠狠色.com| 99久久综合| 欧美一级电影网站| 你懂的视频在线免费| zztt21.su黑料网站| 欧美艳星kaydenkross| 国产日韩欧美a| 国产又粗又长| 麻豆国产欧美一区二区三区r| 精品久久久久久久久久久久久| 乱小说综合网站| 欧美.日韩.国产.一区.二区| 亚洲成av人乱码色午夜| 日本免费在线视频| 丰满放荡岳乱妇91ww| 亚洲剧场午夜在线观看| 精品视频在线观看免费观看 | 狠狠网亚洲精品| 欧美美女15p| 国产91在线精品| 一区二区三区在线免费观看| av电影在线观看网站| 中文在线播放一区二区| 亚洲国产精品电影| 尤物视频在线看| www.激情成人| 久热国产在线视频| 国产99亚洲| 日韩午夜中文字幕| 黄色在线观看网站| 99精品在线观看视频| 欧美行性性性o00x| 国产精品嫩草影院在线看| 国产在线视视频有精品| 九九九久久久久久| 向日葵视频成人app网址| 国产精品入口麻豆原神| 欧美区在线观看| 在线播放的av| 日本欧美韩国一区三区| 欧美xxxx做受欧美.88| 精品视频在线一区二区在线| 色婷婷亚洲mv天堂mv在影片| 日本不卡的三区四区五区| 久久精品91久久香蕉加勒比| 欧美freesex| 亚洲国产成人av网| 91成人福利在线观看| 日韩成人免费电影| 97超级碰碰人国产在线观看| 成人在线超碰| 欧美精品日韩一本| 91在线看片| 久久网这里都是精品| 啪啪免费网站| 精品成人免费| 精品国模在线视频| 亚洲男人在线| 欧美中文字幕一区二区三区| 国产三级在线免费观看| 成人毛片老司机大片| 国产乱人视频免费播放| 午夜av一区| 中文字幕亚洲无线码a| 成人亚洲网站| 欧美色欧美亚洲高清在线视频| 日产精品久久久久久久性色| 国产成人一级电影| 国产成人亚洲精品乱码在线观看| 图片区亚洲欧美小说区| 在线观看视频99| 日韩精品第二页| 在线观看成人小视频| avav免费在线观看| 国产清纯白嫩初高生在线观看91| 蜜桃av麻豆av天美av免费| 日韩黄色免费电影| 骚虎黄色影院| 99久久久国产精品美女| 日韩在线观看成人| 欧美一区一区| 日韩欧美亚洲国产另类| 超碰在线视屏| 亚洲成av人在线观看| 日韩精品123| 久久嫩草精品久久久精品 | 日韩欧洲国产| 日韩一区二区电影| 国产高清自产拍av在线| 午夜精品免费在线观看| 欧美黄色小说| 日本一区二区三区高清不卡| 成年人羞羞的网站|