5. Be romantic. 要浪漫。
The stereotypical icons of romance (roses, candles and chocolate) can only go so far. Think about what really gets that special someone excited. Recognize what makes her unique, and find/do things for them that only they would appreciate. What are her quirky (perhaps secret) interests, obsessions and fantasies? Whenever she's shopping, talking, or watching a movie, what makes her eyes light up? Pay attention! Being romantic means acknowledging how special a person is, and that means demonstrating that you know--better than anyone else in the world--what makes her unique.
浪漫的代表性事物都老套無(wú)比，它們（玫瑰啊、燭光啊、巧克力什么的）不會(huì)幫你在玩浪漫的路上走得更遠(yuǎn)。好好想想怎么才能真正點(diǎn)燃你的她。你得學(xué)會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)使她的獨(dú)特之處，為她找出只有她能欣賞的東西。什么是她特別的（或者秘密的）的興趣；什么使她著魔；什么讓她成天做著白日夢(mèng)？在她購(gòu)物、聊天、看電影時(shí)，什么東西叫她雙眼放光？你得注意這些！浪漫就是承認(rèn)一個(gè)人是特別的。浪漫意味著你懂她，比別人都懂，懂她與眾不同。
6. Break the touch barrier. 碰碰她，別害怕。
There are several ways to touch a girl without being sleazy. Hold her coat while she puts it on. Offer her your hand when she's stepping on an uneven surface. Hold out your elbow so she can link arms with you as you walk together. Hold out your hand so you can lead her through a crowd. Rub her hands when they're cold. These are all polite ways to get a little closer without being creepy. Still, if you see any signs of discomfort, stop! Otherwise, she'll probably enjoy the affection.
我們有很多法子能叫咱正大光明毫不猥瑣的碰一個(gè)女孩。她穿衣服時(shí)，為她擎著外套；在她走顛簸路時(shí)，伸出你紳士的手；一起走時(shí)，為她留一個(gè)臂彎，這樣她才好挽著你。還有，你能勇敢的牽著她在人群中開(kāi)路，你能冷天幫她搓手。這些都能讓你倆走得更近，卻不會(huì)惹她生厭。當(dāng)然了，要是察覺(jué)她對(duì)身體接觸感到別扭，你還是住手為妙。否則，她就是很享受這親密關(guān)系了。
7. Compliment her. 表?yè)P(yáng)她。
If you really like this girl, you probably appreciate a lot of things about her. Why not let her know? If anything is different or new (her hairstyle, nail polish color, shirt), make note of it. The more unique the compliment, the better received it will be, unless she's shallow. Most girls like being complimented on something that makes them distinct, not something that plenty of other girls have. If you compliment her appearance, try to be original. Better yet, compliment her personality or skills.
你若真喜歡她，你會(huì)喜歡她的許多地方，為什么不叫她知道呢？如果她有了小小的變化或新鮮之處（發(fā)型啦，指甲油啦，襯衫啦），你得夸一夸。你的贊美越獨(dú)特，效果越好，除非她很膚淺。大部分女孩子都喜歡那些讓他們覺(jué)著自己與眾不同的贊美，而不是什么一堆一堆的女孩兒都有的特點(diǎn)。如果你想表?yè)P(yáng)她的外表，盡量原創(chuàng)。如果你會(huì)贊揚(yáng)她的性格或者才能就更好了。
8. Make her laugh. 逗她開(kāi)心叫她笑
Telling jokes or funny stories is the classic way to make a person laugh, but not the only one. Find out which are her favorite comedians, funny movies, or sitcoms. Watch them with her. Be bold and think of some antics that'll make her laugh. Tell her to dare you to do something, then do it (as long as it's not dangerous or illegal, of course).
講笑話或者趣聞?shì)W事無(wú)疑是經(jīng)典的逗樂(lè)方法，不過(guò)絕不是只有這些辦法。找出她最喜歡的喜劇、搞笑片或者肥皂劇，陪她看。要勇敢點(diǎn)，想個(gè)滑稽的動(dòng)作逗她開(kāi)心。讓她準(zhǔn)你做些傻事，然后當(dāng)真去做（當(dāng)然啦，既不能危險(xiǎn)也不能違法~）。
9. Ask her out. 約她出來(lái)。
Invite her to go somewhere or do something with you--make sure it's something that you're both interested in. If you want, show her your world. Bring her somewhere that you feel comfortable and preferably, where you have or do something that you're proud of. Or, express interest in seeing her world. Is she a musician? Ask if you can see her perform. Is she a mathematician? Ask to read her report or thesis. Or, just go out for lunch or a cup of coffee and get to know her better.
約她一起去什么地方，或者約她和你一起做些事——確保你倆對(duì)此都有興趣。如果你想的話，向她展示你的世界。帶她去個(gè)你覺(jué)著舒服并且愛(ài)去的地方，講給她在那里你擁有或做過(guò)的讓你引以為豪的事。或者，你讓她知道你對(duì)她的世界感興趣。比方說(shuō)她是個(gè)音樂(lè)家，那么你問(wèn)問(wèn)她許不許你去看她的演出。如果她是搞數(shù)學(xué)的，向她要她的研究報(bào)告和理論讀讀。或者，簡(jiǎn)單的，你只需要請(qǐng)她吃個(gè)晚餐喝杯咖啡什么的，這樣你也能了解她多一點(diǎn)。
（來(lái)源：天星教育網(wǎng) 實(shí)習(xí)生許雅寧 英語(yǔ)點(diǎn)津Yvonne編輯）
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