你是否覺得你有許多事情要做，而你根本沒有足夠的精力去應(yīng)對？
或許你發(fā)覺自己有時(shí)候難過、生氣或者沮喪，感到生活雖然是多彩的卻不受你的掌控。并且你知道，這并不是良好的狀態(tài)。但逃離這驚慌失措的感覺同樣讓你焦灼。
Do you feel like you've got way too much to do, and not enough time to do it in?
Perhaps you find yourself getting upset, angry or despondent at times, feeling as though life is spiraling out of your control. It's not a good state to be in – and you know that. But breaking away from those panicked feelings can be tough.
Here's a few simple steps that can help you get back on top of things.
1. Take a quick time-out 快速抽離
It's important to take a few minutes to breathe and focus. If you're in the middle of a stressful situation – perhaps the house is a complete mess, or work is a huge, chaotic rush – then it's hard to get any perspective.
Go for a quick walk, grab a shower, or just sit still with your eyes closed for a few minutes. Give yourself a chance to calm down, before you start trying to plan.
2. Make a list 列清單
Once you're feeling calmer, grab a piece of paper, or open up a document on your computer, and make a list of everything that you think you need to get done. If something's on your mind, put it down – however big or small.
Your list may well have some urgent items ("clean kitchen before mother-in-law visits tomorrow") and some which are more long-term, but important ("lose 50lbs and get fitter").
Once you've got everything out of your head and onto paper, you'll feel a lot better. Hopefully, you'll already be able to see some items that can wait a while and others that can be checked off quickly. You might even want to start sorting or prioritizing your list, to make the next couple of steps easier.
3. Start with small wins 從小的勝利開始
Obviously, making a list isn't going to get you far. (As a kid, did you ever make an elaborate, color-coded study plan for your exams? Did you actually stick to it?)
You need to start taking action – and a great place to begin is by tackling any "small wins" – simple, quick tasks that you can do straight away. They might not be especially important, but by doing them, you'll start to build up a sense of momentum.
Small wins are especially powerful when they relate to tasks that you've been putting off – a phone call, perhaps, or sending off a letter.
4. Ditch, delegate, delay 放棄、委派、推遲
If your list still looks overwhelming, then it's time to get rid of some tasks.
Can you ditch anything? Perhaps you don't really need fresh-baked cookies for when your parents visit – you could just buy a packet from the store.
Can you delegate anything? If you're overloaded at work, can you get a colleague to take over a few tasks? If you're the one who does all the housework at home, how about assigning specific chores to your partner or kids?
Can you delay anything? If you're rushing to get everything done before you head off on vacation, can you put off some things until you get back?
5. Take care of your health 關(guān)注你的健康
Finally, when you're feeling overwhelmed by life, it's especially important to take care of your health. You know all the basics:
? Eat sensibly – don't skip meals because you're "too busy", or grab junk food.
? Exercise regularly – even a 20-minute brisk walk every day can make a huge difference.
? Get enough sleep – cutting back won't make you more productive, as you'll end up slowing down during the day
If you get sick, you're going to find it even harder to get things done – so make sure that your health is a priority.
What tips do you have for dealing with overwhelm? How do you get back on top of things when life is hectic?
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（來源：pickthebrain.com 編輯：Rosy）
