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人在33歲后開始變得無私
It's no longer 'me, me, me': Selfish outlook vanishes when we turn 33

[ 2011-12-23 10:19]

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Interesting: Volunteering in the local community is the only area where people under 33 are likely to be more generous with their time

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When you're fed up with self-obsessed twenty-somethings, try to remember that they'll be 33 one day.

For that's the age when they lose the 'all about me' attitude, research suggests.

By then, youthful selfishness subsides and people begin to consider others' feelings more often, researchers say.

When we reach 33, we are also more likely to make an effort with parents and grandparents and take a positive attitude towards ending feuds with family or friends.

The older we get, the more selfless we are in almost all areas of life – with the exception of volunteering in the community, the report suggests.

Most people agree that having children is the turning point in changing our attitudes towards other people.

This is when we apparently find ourselves worrying more about others and doing things for them, such as checking how they are getting home, offering to help with childcare and doing airport runs.

And we are more likely to keep an eye out for neighbours, as well as give up seats to elderly people on public transport.

We will probably also be more involved in the community and willing to donate money to good causes.

Those under 33 are most likely to admit to being very selfish – with 40 percent saying that they put themselves first in all circumstances.

However, 40 percent of this age group regularly volunteer for charity or their community – higher than any other age group.

The age at which we are most selfish is our teenage years, researchers found – with people saying that just growing up made them more likely to consider others.

Others cite meeting their partner or buying a house as the point at which they started being more compassionate and putting others first.

Researchers at Make-A-Wish Foundation UK came to their conclusion after studying the attitudes of 2,000 adults aged from 20 to 60.

(Read by Nelly Min. Nelly Min is a journalist at the China Daily Website.)

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當你對那些以自我為中心的二十多歲的人忍無可忍時，你可以想想有一天他們也會到33歲的。

因為有研究顯示，33歲是人們拋棄那種一切圍著自己轉的心態的年齡。

研究人員稱，到了33歲，年輕時的自私心將消退，人們會開始更多地考慮他人的感受。

當我們到了33歲，我們也會更努力地和父母、祖父母相處，會更愿意積極化解和家人或朋友間的積怨。

研究報告顯示，我們年齡越大，在生活的各個方面也會變得更無私——除了社區志愿服務外。

許多人都認為生育小孩是我們改變對他人態度的轉折點。

這個時候，我們會明顯發現自己更多地為他人操心、為他人做事，如確認他人如何回家，主動提出幫忙照顧小孩，或去接機送機。